True love ,strong love
TRUE LOVE
Most commonly, love refers to a feeling of a strong attraction and emotional attachment.143
Love is considered to be both positive and negative, with its virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection, as "the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another" and its vice representing human moral flaw, akin to vanity, selfishness, amorphous, and egotism, as potentially leading people into a type of mania, obsessiveness or codependency. It may also describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self, or animals.[8] In its various forms, love acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.[9] Love has been postulated to be a function that keeps human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the species.[10]. Love encompasses a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states, from the most sublime virtue or good habit, the deepest interpersonal affection, to the simplest pleasure. An example of this range of meanings is that the love of a mother differs from the love of a spouse, which differs from the love for food.
You need to be able to talk, to share jokes, and to enjoy each others’ company. Over time, the physical passion may fade, but true friendship will last forever. It’s a great premise, and a nice daydream, but life isn’t TV. So many TV show relationships are based on friends who fall in love over time. But you need to be friends with your partner. You don’t need to be best friends with your partner since kindergarten for love to last
Don’t let this make you feel guilty. When you’re truly in love, you don’t want to be with anyone else. You can’t imagine spending your time without your sweetheart. It’s human nature to be attracted to other people, to allow your head to be turned by an attractive passerby. As long as you’re committed to your partner, your relationship is fine.
You must stay in love with yourself for your entire life. Don’t forget that you need to love yourself. Self love is important, but it’s not something you should achieve and then throw away once you’re with your partner. If you start to dislike yourself or what you’re doing, you need to change just enough to stay on track, to stay true to yourself, and to stay in love with yourself.
Love is beautiful. I used to write stories about a woman that I some day hoped to be, and how she would find the perfect man for her, her soulmate, and fall in love with him. And I couldn't find any two forms of love that were identical. My own experience with love comes in many forms. It has infinitely many forms, and each of the forms never stays the same for long. It is the mysterious force that binds people to those around them. Ever since I was a young girl I fantasized about the romantic kind of love. I love many people, and many things, all in different ways. That didn't mean that love didn't exist, but the love I saw around me was a messier, more complicated version. Every loving relationship I saw had its own qualities and idiosyncrasies. Love is always evolving, and changing intensity. It can sometimes be ugly, but it is always beautiful.
I've had a fascination with love all my life. When I first began dating, I was dead set on finding that perfect kind of love, and discarded any relationship that began to seem like it wouldn't live up. They would have the perfect relationship and never fight. I thought that was what love was supposed to be like, and why it was so special to people.
This idea threw me for a long time. Finally, in looking at the relationships of others, I began to find that this form of love didn't exist.
It is that unspeakable connection to certain people or things for unexplainable reasons. It is whatever I feel it is, as well as whatever that five-year-old feel it is. That doesn't mean that the love I feel, or that a five year old feels, is a no less accurate portrayal of what love is. However, I think the wonderful thing about love is that it's something everyone can experience. It is very abstract, can be hard to describe, and is something that everyone defines differently and applies to many different types of things. Perhaps you might say that because I'm only eighteen years old, I couldn't possibly know that much about love. Love, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder.
I think the reason that love is such a beautiful thing is because it is a lot like beauty itself. It heightens our emotions and makes us feel truly alive. People will never lose their fascination with it, because it is inside us all to feel it, to share it, to let it fill our lives. As you get older, you certainly have more opportunities to love others and be loved.
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